if you don't have the courage to stand up for women, thats ok. I recognise the fear. but it only takes a moment to overcome that and be brave enough.
the key point is to speak kindly and coax our brothers to understand that violence is their/our weakness and frustration, nothing to do with our partner.
then if the violence is active and you lack the courage to stop him, call the cops and let them manage to person.
most men who are violent to women lack the courage to be aggressive to other men. they're cowards.
